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No one is perfect, everyone has differences from each other because we’re all unique individuals.
Out there is full of ones who see the quirky qualities our friends and family love us for, as “flaws”.
What makes us beautiful is being imperfect. I’ve dated people who have fallen in love with the idea of me, and have fiercely tried to mold me into the exact shape they want.
That's when i start to question myself and doubt all of the qualities that once gave me confidence until i act unhappily as another girl, starting to believe: “Shit, I’m the weirdo", hitting my self-estemm.
If you’re trying to take a wonderful, unique, amazing individual and mold them into a shape that better suits your vision of a "perfect one". I'm sorry to say, you won't find that person.
The only way is falling in love with their insecurities, their way of thinking, their theory of life and love, letting them be their selves 100%. Loving them.
Therefore, if you're trying to fix someone they're not right... for you, That's exactly why you want to change them or the other way around.
As i don't want to change this velvet bralette from Sammydress.
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Nadie es perfecto, todo el mundo tiene diferencias entre sí, porque
todos somos individuos únicos.
Este mundo está lleno de eso que ven las cualidades extravagantes por
las que nuestros amigos y familia nos aman, como "defectos".
Lo que nos hace hermosos es el ser imperfecto. He salido con personas que se han enamorado de la idea de mí, e intentan ferozmente moldearme en la forma que quieren.
Es ahí, cuando empiezo a cuestionarme y dudo de todas las cualidades que alguna vez me dieron confianza, hasta que actuó infelizmente como otra chica, empezando a creer: "Soy la rara problemática", golpeando directamente mi autoestima.
Si buscas tener un individuo maravilloso, único, asombroso y lo moldeas de una forma que se adapte mejor a tu visión de lo "perfecto". Siento decir que no encontrarás a esa persona.
La única manera es enamorándote de sus inseguridades, su forma de pensar, su teoría de la vida y el amor, dejándolos ser ellos mismos al 100%. Amándolos.
Por lo tanto, si tratas de arreglar a alguien que no está bien...
para ti, eso es exactamente por lo qué lo quieres cambiar o viceversa.
Así como no quiero cambiar este bralette de terciopelo de Sammydress.
Amazing post!
ReplyDeleteHave a nice week-end!
Gil Zetbase
Beautiful text!
ReplyDeleteAnd Samidress has very irreverent articles. Love!
Xoxo
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Very good publication of orientation to the current youth, which is undermined by stereotypes and dogmas that society has imposed. Continue to share meaningful experiences with our young people. Michelle hits.
ReplyDeleteExcuse me for my very basic English